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Friday, December 27, 2013

Romance Meets Life

Romance Meets Life

Advice Corner - She Loves Me, She Love Me Not, What Do I Believe?

Posted: 27 Dec 2013 12:03 AM PST


Hi Myne, How do you do today and a Merry Christmas to you and your family. I'm not sure if I should be writing this to you but I know you run a romance site according to your profile here... I just need someone I can talk to. I have this lady I was dating for 2 yrs, we are both in our early 30's and we had plans to get married... Somewhere along the line, her elder Sister introduced her to some rich guy.


The guy calls my lady and spends hours on the phone making it difficult for me to reach her whenever I need to say goodnight, when I finally got through she tells me is some guy her sister introduced to her and there's nothing between them. This trend continued over a period of time and it got to a point I was mad at her because of the hours of the night he calls but along the line I decided not to trouble my heart after I prayed about it.

So to cut my long story short, she called me after a while and said to me we can't continue the relationship.. I felt bad, I cried and asked why... All she said to me because I don't earn well. I felt betrayed after all I have done to always keep her happy, from what I earn I do buy her expensive gifts and all...

I accepted my fate after much trying to make her stay.

Not up to a week after our breakup, she still calls to tell me she loves me and she said to me I shouldn't sleep with another woman.

On our last conversation, I told her I was going to see my cousin's friend a female who just got back from the States with my items, so after I was done picking up my items on my way home my ex called and asked if I was done getting my stuffs and if I like the lady I went to see, I laughed and told her I'm not into any relationships now cos I have targets to meet up for next year, during our conversation, her tone suddenly turned cold I asked her if everything was okay and she said yes. So we ended our talk saying we talk when I get home.

On getting home I called her over the phone to find out what went wrong during our last talk, and she said to me I wasn't speaking open, like I had someone with me and I am beginning to like someone else.. 'Wow' I didn't know what to say and I replied her I was alone in the car and liking someone else now is not what I am fishing for.. So she said to me 'I am sorry for acting cold'

So this my open letter to you and your blog readers, I really don't know what she wants from me. Would be glad if you could explain things to me maybe its a woman thing, I really don't know.

Do have a great holidays and any suggestions I will be glad to read from you.
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