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Friday, June 6, 2014

Romance Meets Life

Romance Meets Life


Husbands Say They Have Better Sex When Wives Make as Much Money As Them or More!

Posted: 06 Jun 2014 11:02 AM PDT


If it's not the root of all evil, money is at least the root of most marital spats. (Roughly 70 percent of marrieds say money causes the majority of their bickering, according to a new nationwide survey conducted by the magazine Money.) That's probably not a huge shocker.

But this is: About 56 percent of men who make the same or less than their spouses reported a "hot" or "very good" sex life, versus just 44 percent of husbands who out-earn their wives. (Read: If you make more, the sex is hotter!) Guys who make the same or less are also about 15 percent more likely to rate their marriages as "happy" compared to men who earn the lion's share of the family income, the survey finds.


What gives? "I think part of it may be that, for guys, there's often a lot of pressure on them to produce, and to be the breadwinner," says Karen Sherman, Ph.D., a relationship psychologist and author of Marriage Magic. "That burden can create stress that has a negative effect on their happiness and their sex lives." But if the woman in the relationship is making as much as or more than her husband, he may not feel so much pressure to produce, Sherman speculates.

Diane Harris, executive editor of Money, agrees. "Both men and women married to partners who made roughly the same salary reported the hottest romantic life," Harris says. "We think it's because they feel like true partners—that they're a team taking care of the finances together. That breeds extra closeness in and out of the bedroom."

Regardless of who earns more, Harris says sharing the management of your household's income means you and your partner are both responsible for the big financial decisions, so no one person has to carry that pressure alone. "When you feel less pressure about money, you feel closer, as our survey shows," she adds.

Other interesting tidbits from the Money survey:

- Couples who have children tend to argue more about their finances than childless couples. Also, the older you get, the less likely you are to fight about money. (Yay!)
- Sixty-three percent of men say they're the primary decision maker when it comes to investments, while only 23 percent of women say likewise. So, we say it's time to speak up!
- When it comes to getting deals (as opposed to retirement planning and bill paying), 34 percent of husbands admit their wives are often the better barterers.

Via Shape

The Top Tips To Make Your Breasts Grow Bigger Naturally

Posted: 06 Jun 2014 06:06 AM PDT


This is a silent trending topic among a lot of ladies. The average woman is not satisfied with the size of her breasts, and desires to make them bigger! This article has the top tips and ways to make your breasts grow in the most natural way possible!

If you are going through adolescence, please exercise caution and use discretion following some of these tips. Adolescent girls are best served to wait until puberty is passed before determining that they would like bigger breasts.

Keep on reading for some fabulous tips on making your breasts grow and remember to share this article with friends!

1. STUDY

The first thing to do in order to make your breasts grow is to study up on the subject. Check out books and articles to learn about your breasts, the functions of them and the best ways to care for them. Nutrition and exercise are important components of the size of your breasts. Do your homework and learn all about your breasts! There may be something you never knew just waiting to jump out at you!

2. DRINK UP

Research has proven that one of the best and natural ways to make your breasts grow is to drink a mixture of papaya juice and milk daily. Nutrients and vitamins found in these two ingredients will enhance your breasts and plump them out if you are faithful to drink up every day. You can also try eating fresh papaya as an alternative.

3. EXERCISE

There are actually several types of exercise you can do to enhance your chest and make your breasts grow. The pectoral muscle is just like any other muscle, with a little work it will swell up and look larger. Do your research to find out which exercises will best serve you and then do them religiously every day!

4. EAT PROTEIN

Protein is one of the best ways to make your breasts grow! Try eating more milk, eggs, peanut butter, lean fish and chicken and nuts. Ideally, you should eat a well-balanced diet anyway. Your feminine curves will be softer, more enhanced, and rounded out nicely. Try cutting out sodas, sugar, processed foods and fast foods and replacing them with water and vitamins that your body needs.

5. BE PATIENT

As with anything else in life, remember to be patient as you wait for your breasts to grow. Asking yourself how to make your breasts grow is a good place to start, but you need patience to see results. If you are an adolescent girl, wait for puberty to pass before determining your breasts are too small. Often, the breasts will grow in spurts so you may have a huge change overnight in the size of your breasts!

6. MASSAGE YOUR BREASTS

It has been rumored that if you really want to grow your breasts, you've got to give them a bit of a massage. This can be done every single day or night and it can actually help with the tissues in your breasts.

7. PUSH-UP EXERCISES

Because there are muscles under your breasts, you've got to make sure that you strengthen those by doing push-up exercises. I know that it's hard to imagine that doing exercise will actually make your breasts larger, but it does!

I hope this article on How To Make Your Breasts Grow Bigger has given you some encouragement and some healthy alternatives to surgery or implants. Do any of our readers out there have suggestions on tips on ways to make your breasts grow to share with us?
We love to hear from you so please feel free to throw in your ideas!

7 Bible Quotes In Support Of Gay Relationships Released By Youtube Activists

Posted: 06 Jun 2014 03:02 AM PDT


After the news about R Kelly's Transguy daughter yesterday, I went searching for what the bible has to say about gays and transgenders. I found these bible quotes by LGBT activist Matthew Vines in a recent video with popular lesbian vlogger Arielle Scarcella.

Matthew is Christain and begins by saying; "Sexual orientation is a pretty new concept. Christians in the past tended to see same-sex behavior as a vice of excess like gluttony or drunkenness, not as a sexual orientation that can be expressed in loving, committed ways. So Christians don't have to reject their faith's tradition in order to accept same-sex relationships."

He goes on to differenciate homosexual lust from gay love and marriage, not forcing celibacy on homosxuals, insisting that Sodom and Gomorrah were destroyed for previous sins, and not the gang rape on Lot's family, pointing out that Leviticus laws are not binding on Christians any more, among other quotes.

Do you agree with him?

The two activists posted the video on Scarcella's Youtube channel take a look at what the Bible really has to say about same-sex relationships, and it is titled, "7 Bible Quotes In Support Of Same Sex Relationships,"

Scarcella asked openly gay Matthew Vines for some expert perspective because he recently released his book God and the Gay Christian. Vines is also well known for the viral YouTube video, "The Gay Debate: The Bible and Homosexuality."

Check out the video below.

Shonda Rhimes Puts Viola Davis in The Lead of New TV Show

Posted: 06 Jun 2014 02:09 AM PDT


Producer Shonda Rhimes is back with a new show that tackles the legal profession. Academy Award nominee Viola Davis stars as a famous criminal defense attorney teaching young law students in a class she likes to call "How to Get Away with Murder." (I like this already.)

The show focuses on several students in her class who get involved in a real-life case with her. Since it's a show produced by Rhimes, I'm pretty sure it will focus solely on philosophical issues surrounding the law and not a just feature a bunch of hot, sexy people getting romantically involved with each other while discovering deep, mysterious secrets about other people on the show. Because that would just be terrible.

The show is scheduled to air Thursdays at 10 p.m. EST on ABC, after Grey's Anatomy and Scandal.

10 Signs You Have a Solid Relationship

Posted: 06 Jun 2014 12:04 AM PDT


We hear stories from time to time about people who thought their relationship was going well only to discover their partner wasn't on the same page. It can be devastating when a relationship ends unexpectedly and people often ask themselves why they didn't see it coming. The answer is often that they were ignoring problems that were staring them in the face.


Just as you regularly take your car into the garage for a service and MOT you can run your relationship through a series of tests to check it's on track.

1. You trust each other – Trust is the essential foundation of any healthy relationship. Some people say that trust has to be earned over time while others believe that it is there at the beginning and only diminishes if someone does something to hurt or betray you. Whatever your standpoint it is vital that you trust your partner.

2. You enjoy being together – It may sound obvious but you only need to look around to see that some couples seem to have lost any pleasure and enjoyment in each other's company. Do you look forward to spending time with your partner? Do you laugh and enjoy shared experiences? Although every couple will go through difficult times there should be lightness, joy and humour in a relationship in order for it to last.

3. You respect each other – This is more than just a word, it is a deep feeling of positive regard for the other person's feelings, attitudes, interests and beliefs even if they are different from your own.

4. You can talk about anything and everything – Talking to each other openly and honestly fosters intimacy. Some people find it very difficult to open up and share their feelings but practice over time will improve your skills. Don't be afraid to be vulnerable in front of your partner, it will benefit the relationship because it shows that you trust them. We aren't suggesting that your partner should be your only confidant, sometimes if you are dealing with difficult feelings it can be better to talk to a same sex friend or family member. The important thing is that you feel you can talk to your partner about things.

5. You can argue well – All couples disagree sometimes and ideally arguments should be mutually supportive conversations which are necessary to resolve and negotiate differences and disagreements rather than hurtful battles which you try to win whatever the cost.

6. You are happy when you are apart – The most successful relationships are those where each person is able to have their own life and interests independently of the other, you aren't dependant on the other to feel safe, secure or confident. That way you know you will always be together because you want to be rather than because you need to be.

7. Your sex life is still vibrant and exciting – You don't have to be swinging from the lampshades but you must both be fulfilled and able to talk if there are problems.

8. You are flexible about the future – You don't have to have it all mapped out but are happy to grow together. You can plan together but don't have your happiness and relationship dependant on certain things happening. Life is unpredictable; people lose jobs, illness and accidents can happen but if you are flexible your relationship can survive, and thrive, through it all.

9. You don't feel threatened by their relationships with their exes – This develops over time as you come to see that your partner's affections are now firmly with you. It can add to the relationship if you can be supportive of them having a good relationship with their ex especially if kids are involved. Jealousy and insecurity in this area will erode a relationship because no matter what hurt has gone on in the past the parents of children have to find a way to communicate well with each other and your attitude will make a huge difference to this. It also shows you are secure in yourself.

10. They are your number one fan – It may sound silly but it is really important that you feel that your partner thinks you are great and that they encourage, appreciate and support you. It is lovely to be told that you are the most wonderful woman/man they have ever met. Not everyone is so demonstrative but you can tell by the way someone treats you if they think the world of you. This is also about feeling that they would speak well of you when you are not there. We all have a moan from time to time about our partners but the overriding feeling should be that if they were talking about you it would be in glowing terms.


Via eHarmony
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Read More relationship posts;

Love Languages: What is Yours? - http://www.romancemeetslife.com/2010/02/languages-of-love-what-is-yours.html

How to have lasting online romance - http://www.romancemeetslife.com/2012/11/how-to-have-lasting-online-romance.html

Safety tips for online dating - http://www.romancemeetslife.com/2012/08/safety-tips-online-dating-social-networking.html

Arranged Marriage versus personal choice - http://www.romancemeetslife.com/2012/11/arranged-marriage-versus-personal-choice.html

Can Online dating become lasting love? - http://www.romancemeetslife.com/2010/07/can-online-love-become-lasting-love.html

How to Express love to your wife - http://www.mynewhitmanwrites.com/2011/09/how-to-express-love-to-your-wife.html

9 Ways to know when you're in Love - http://www.romancemeetslife.com/2012/11/9-ways-to-know-when-youre-in-love.html

How to Find out Reason for relationship breakup - http://www.romancemeetslife.com/2013/03/wanting-to-know-reason-for-break-up.html

Steps to a successful relationship - http://www.romancemeetslife.com/2010/10/steps-to-successful-relationship.html

How to deal with unrequited love or the friend zone - http://www.romancemeetslife.com/2012/12/unrequited-love-lets-call-it-friend-zone.html

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