Romance Meets Life

One In Six Wives Won’t Let Husband See Them Naked - Is This True?
Omawumi Teases Fans With Picture of Her Daughter and Baby Daddy
God Made You Beautiful - Beyonce Dedicates New Song to Daughter Blue Ivy
Men With Wandering Eyes and Hands - Have You Encountered These Disrespectful Men?
#ThrowbackThursday - Rita Dominic in Kenya 2009
Amber Rose Shares First Picture of Her Son's Face in Halloween Costume
Don’t Be That Girl: How to Avoid Being a Bridezilla
Eku Edewor Featured on Vogue - Talks About Growing Up and Fashion in Nigeria
Magazine Covers - Ini Edo on House of Maliq
Quote of the Day - Realize How Blessed You Are For What You Have

One In Six Wives Won’t Let Husband See Them Naked - Is This True?

Posted: 31 Oct 2013 05:20 PM PDT

Sometimes, I do feel shy undressing in front of Atala, usually after a very tasty Nsala, where I have eaten a bit too much. Seems I'm not alone, in fact I'm a saint. One in six married women has not let their husband see them naked in over a year, according to a poll carried out on 1,902 married women from across the UK, which asked when they last allowed their husband to see them nude.

According to this report, of the 16 per cent claimed they had not undressed in front of their partners during the last 12 months or more;

Almost half said this was because they felt insecure about their appearance, while a third blamed a dip in their sex drive. Around 40 per cent said their relationship had suffered as a result and 36 per cent admitted that their constant attempt to cover up had caused rows.

Sarah Bailey, from online pharmacist UKMedix.com which commissioned the poll, said: "Body confidence is a huge element of women's sex life, and it seems a lack thereof is causing problems.

"A relatively high percentage of married women haven't allowed their partner to see them nude in the past 12 months or more."

She added: "Women must remember that even though they may not love their bodies, chances are their partner does - and no relationship is worth sacrificing for a lack of confidence in the looks department."

What do you think, if you're married, what has been your experience?

Omawumi Teases Fans With Picture of Her Daughter and Baby Daddy

Posted: 31 Oct 2013 03:01 PM PDT

Omawumi is one the few celebrities who prefer to keep their personal life private and separate from their public personalities as performing artistes. The mother of one, who had her baby in 2011 and has only ever shared the picture of the girl, named Kamillah. Since then, there has been outcries from her fans that she did not name the father, with attendant speculations. Omawumi recently released an altered picture, below,which shows the singer, her daughter and the baby daddy.

She tagged the picture, "Baba Kamillah, Kami and Mummy... I wish I cld share more. Thank you so much for your patience. Clearer photos and good news sooner than you know. God is always good."

I hope she doesn't feel any pressure to release the real pictures or information about her partner or little daughter. We look forward to her good news, and wish her all the best.

God Made You Beautiful - Beyonce Dedicates New Song to Daughter Blue Ivy

Posted: 31 Oct 2013 03:01 PM PDT

Beyonce has just unveiled the video trailer for her documentary Life is But a Dream and the soundtrack is a new song dedicated to her daughter Blue Ivy. The documentary which is being released on DVD on November 25 was originally aired on HBO in March, and tracks Beyonce from childhood to marriage, motherhood and getting back to work as Mrs Carter.

In this new trailer, Beyonce pays tribute to her almost two year old Blue Ivy, singing: 'When you were born/The angels sighed in delight/They never thought they'd see such a beautiful sight' before launching into the chorus, "God Made You Beautiful".

What do you think of the song?

Men With Wandering Eyes and Hands - Have You Encountered These Disrespectful Men?

Posted: 31 Oct 2013 03:01 PM PDT

This week on Toke moments, it's all about R.E.S.P.E.C.T! Watch Toke Makinwa talk about those things that some guys do that she finds disrespectful.....From guys with wandering hands and eyes, fast lying tongues, and chronic card collectors, you don't want to take these guys home to your mother. If you're a guy, are you guilty? If you're a lady, has it ever happened to you?

#ThrowbackThursday - Rita Dominic in Kenya 2009

Posted: 31 Oct 2013 03:02 PM PDT

Rita Dominic was in Kenya in 2009 shooting her movie "Shackled". During this period, she also took part in various charity events. She shared this picture with the tag "#tbt... Paraplegic walk in Kenya 2009... Was quite an emotional day.. #charity"

Amber Rose Shares First Picture of Her Son's Face in Halloween Costume

Posted: 31 Oct 2013 10:29 AM PDT

Amber Rose usually only shares pictures of Sebastian, her son with Wiz Khalifa in poses where his face is not so clearly visible. Today she shared a picture of the baby in his Lion costume for halloween with the caption "We love our Lil Lion baby #Sebastian". More pictures of Sebastian and Amber below...

Don’t Be That Girl: How to Avoid Being a Bridezilla

Posted: 31 Oct 2013 07:09 AM PDT

By Jennifer McCord

Bridezillas – they're an ugly stereotype that, unless you're careful, can become your reality when it is your turn to plan your nuptials. With societal pressures, tight deadlines and the desire to control every last detail, it's enough to make any woman crack! However, this diva behavior is entirely avoidable for every bride-to-be (yes, this means you), so keep reading on how you avoid this all too common trap.

Tip One: Turn Off the TV

No, you don't have to give up TV completely! But you should give up on watching wedding-themed shows. Sure, you probably gained a whole new level of appreciation for those shows once your fiancé proposed. But once you actually start planning a wedding, chances are that the last thing you need at the end of the day is a marathon of TLC's Four Weddings (more later on why this show is a bad idea) or Say Yes to the Dress. You may want to obsess over your upcoming wedding 24/7 until the big day arrives, but your brain needs a break. Let's face it — obsessing over anything for an extended period of time just isn't healthy. Instead, curl up next to your fiancé and watch something you both love.

Tip Two: Start a Happy Jar

While this doesn't have to be a physical jar, find some outlet where you can force yourself to record positive thoughts. Try to write down positive wedding-themed feelings whenever you find them crossing your mind. Wedding planning can be a hugely stressful monster, and even though you'll have several people around you to help you, sometimes they won't be as helpful as they think. You may be faced with unsolicited advice, excessive questions, or even accidentally rude comments. But you have to keep reminding yourself that these people are your family and friends, and they mean well. So here's the other way the Happy Jar works: Each time someone upsets or annoys you, get out a piece of paper and write down something positive about them. This will help you let go of those feelings more easily. If you needed any more convincing, check out these 10 reasons you need a happy jar.

Tip Three: Use the 10-Year Rule

Even though you're a wedding-planning machine, somewhere along the line, something's going to go wrong. You can't control everything that happens during your wedding-planning process; however, you can control how you respond to what happens. A good general rule is this: when something goes wrong, take a deep breath and ask yourself — and answer honestly — whether you'll still be upset about this detail in ten years. If the problem is big enough that the answer is yes, then by all means, call your maid of honor, your fiancé, and your mom, and show this problem who's boss. But if the answer is no, then shrug your shoulders, count to ten, and move on with your day. Usually, when you think about problems using the ten-year rule, you wind up realizing that you probably won't even remember the problem in ten years. It's hard to let stuff go in the moment, but you'll love yourself for it later, and your friends will be wowed by your serenity. If you would like to create more serenity in your busy wedding planning days, it may also be helpful to try out some meditation exercises. Clear your mind of all the stress you feel and just relax.

Tip Four: Respect your Bridesmaids

If you have ever seen the movie Bridesmaids, you know very well that you and the bridal party will have varying opinions when it comes to the dress and price. You want your dress to be perfect, you want your groom and his best men to look perfect, and the same goes for your bridesmaids. But, to look perfect, this does not mean forcing your bridesmaids to spend upwards of $500 on a dress that they may never wear again. Instead, go to a budget-conscious bridal store that has multiple locations, like David's Bridal. Not only are their dresses affordable but, if your ladies are geographically scattered, they'll be able to find a shop within their proximity. Your bridesmaid's will thank you for this, and so will their wallets. Additionally, don't be too demanding of their time! If you expect your close friends will put their lives on hold to help you create DIY wedding favors one weekend after the next, than you're setting yourself up for disappointment and frustration.

Tip Five: Stop Aiming for Perfection

Now it's time to talk about the other reason you shouldn't watch shows like Four Weddings. Sure, it can give you cool ideas, but it also plants one big, bad idea in your head: that you should be comparing your wedding to other weddings. This is one of the worst habits to fall into. If you spend all your time obsessing over whether or not your wedding will be perfect, it won't be perfect in anyone's eyes, especially yours. Instead, try thinking about this: imagine that there are no rules for a wedding, no weird traditions like the garter and bouquet toss, and no unrealistic expectations. Imagine that your wedding is simply a party to celebrate the love you share with your fiancé, where your friends and family can come have fun with you and wish you well as you start your lives together. If that sounds good, then good news! That's exactly what your wedding is. It's a celebration, not a competition, and because of that, the people who show up are there because they love you, not because they want to judge you. Keep these four tips in mind, and you should be on track for a beautiful, fun wedding, and a wonderful marriage.

Eku Edewor Featured on Vogue - Talks About Growing Up and Fashion in Nigeria

Posted: 31 Oct 2013 07:11 AM PDT

Eku Edewor, actress, model and Mnet's 53 Xtra host, was featured on Vogue Italia's website, vogue.it, on their Black Blog. Eku, in an interview with Vogue's Shomara Roosblad, takes a trip down memory lane to her childhood and the role fashion played growing up. Eku Edewor also talks about Nigerian women and the ways they express themselves through fashion.

Eku Edewor can be described as a woman who is not afraid to dress elegantly . It is an inclination to the style that has acquired since childhood. She grew up between Nigeria and England within a family had a flare for fashion and aware of the importance of transmitting their personality through their choices in clothing. We talk to Eku Edewor and, while evoking memories and tells us about his personal sense of style and how they have influenced its roots, we offer you a glimpse into the world of fashion in Africa.

Could you tell us something about your past and background? What role did the fashion in your childhood?

I grew up in two countries: Nigeria and Britain. I had a childhood interesting and I came in contact with different cultures thanks to the fact that my parents love to travel. I spent Christmas at Eku, Delta State, the village of origin of my parents in Nigeria. While the summers I shared between Europe, America and other African states.

Growing up I was experiencing the world through the eyes of my parents through which I could see wonderful art, visiting museums, I went to the restaurant and I was shopping. I may not have been able to appreciate it at the time but those experiences have determined my relationship with clothing. I lived in Lagos until the age of 13 then I moved to Cranbrook, Kent where I started in private schools at the Benenden School.

My mother, Juliana Edewor, has always had an incredible style and her approach to fashion is always personal yet constantly in step with the times, so I think that both me and my twin sister Kessiana have inherited his taste and sense of style. Then my adoptive father , Peter Thomas, was a man with impeccable style , from these I learned the importance of the quality of the clothes and the priority that should be on this trend. My father, Hugh Thorley, has an innate sense of elegance and taught me not to bring a suit with safety adds value to the look.

What is your first memory related to fashion?

Besides watching Style with Elsa Klenchs on CNN with my mother as a toddler, I would say that my first memory was fashionable at the age of 12 years. This is the first time I remember that I have myself a decision about what to wear to express who I was. then attended the Grange Secondary School in Nigeria and I remember that my style "preppy" was considered tremendously "English" and far too sophisticated for a little girl who went to school like Grange.

At the time, the fashion that was the most popular was the "urban" and the "Ghetto Fab", the boys wore Timberland, pants and maxi T-shirt while the girls' "uniform" was super short skirts and tight-fitting top but, since my parents would go crazy if I dressed this myself, my sister and I went to the store to Ikeja Wrangler with my mom. Kessy My sister chose a lovely pair of jeans with pockets quite low, if I remember correctly, while I opted for a shiny gray overalls.

Also, we had both of cute sleeveless white cotton t-shirts, cut slightly and top with hood. Laced the straps of my overalls and, I think, all complemented each other with massive soled sneakers. We did both the bangs and the hair line down the middle making hair fall on our backs. In practice, a miniature version of Aaliyahs. The people told us that "we were great" and obviously we liked it a lot. We felt like little celebrities.

How would you describe the culture of the Nigerian fashion nowadays?

Nigerian women I have to say that we love to express ourselves, the bright colors and cheerful prints, we are magpies, in that sense. We love things that sparkle and shine, both in clothes and accessories, and the silhouette shapes. So I understand how difficult it is to introduce other elements that differ from what is described: Our style is flamboyant and flashy, that's how we like it. But I will say also that, as the fashion industry develops and grows, it seems to me that our approach to clothing is evolving.

Nigerians have personality to spare , and even if we are not in one of the fashion capitals, we act as if we were! And it is precisely why I love the fashion here in Nigeria and we are proud people, we love to dress elegantly and even "too dressed up", we could also make wrong choices at times but all dress with care.